Sooo I had a plan. I am not saying I am giving up the plan but I may need to re-evaluate the plan. See, I thought I needed to work on myself and some of that probably stemmed from the break-up last Summer. Okay, maybe most of it did. When we get rejected by someone we care about it makes us feel like something is wrong with us, or at least it did me. So it is common after a breakup to really work hard at becoming better versions of ourselves. I have been doing my yoga and meditation each day, journaling and prayers, and trying to drink more water and make healthier food choices and all of it has paid off. I am a positive person I think most would say and I do believe that if you put your desires out into the universe with full belief and faith in the process and with good intentions, then good things will come your way.
I had a plan to go a year without dating but I had also painted a picture of what I want in a relationship in the future. At my age and after dating a few different guys you become pretty clear about what you definitely do want and what you don’t want in a relationship and significant other. I had planned to stay open to making new friends but I wanted to focus on my career and school. I have been working on healing my heart for six months and trying to come to terms with the fact that I was single again. I have always heard it happens when you least expect it. I accepted the phone number but made it clear I am not looking for a relationship. I accepted the invitation to meet up for dinner and the conversation is easy and the night ends in a kiss that left me thinking…okay that would probably qualify as a date.
When the flowers come to my office on Monday I know I am in trouble. I like this guy and he obviously likes me. Is it really unexpected? Yes and no. I think the law of attraction worked exactly the way Abraham Hicks said it would. Put your desires out into the universe and let God have it in his control to set in motion and make happen. So this week I have struggled with this unexpected chain of events and I have had to ask myself…what is really happening here? Basically, I set my intention to find a partner and then I let it go and got focused on my school and career. I didn’t go out looking for him, he found me. I didn’t force it or try to control the situation, it happened without me trying at all. It happened just like it was supposed to, just like I wanted, naturally. Am I saying I know without a doubt this guy is the one for me? No, not just yet but I do think there is some serious potential behind those green eyes and that easy smile. I guess it is true, some of the best things in life are the ones you never expect…. I guess only time will tell.
With love, health, happiness and the unexpected,